I think I may have done something stupid
I sent this text to H.

"I have been thinking and I am not comfortable with your friendship/relationship with OW. It really bothers me and its not right. If there is any chance for us, communication with an ex is unacceptable on any level. If you really care about us and this family you will put this relationship first. I am sure if you were in my position you would feel the same. I would really like a happy future together and I am willing to work on myself, but I need to have the same from you."

I know it sounds needy and ultimatum like, but I am so sick of this. I am not ok with their friendship. They have been intimate, she wants more and its not innocent. Its not ok with me. I can't just look the other way. They exchanged xmas gifts and there are pics of her kids sitting on his table.

Ready for the 2x4!!


Me: 46 FWS: 36
Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07
Baby Girl born 3/08
Kicked him out because OW: 7/08
5/10 He realized what he had and lost.
Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!