just had my first db coaching session with Jody. wow.!!! do i feel like i have a plan of action. concrete solutions . she stressed consistency more than anything. that is what gets results. be consistent in your db'ing. negative feelings have to leave. compassion. listening with validating. galing for yourself so you will not deplete your self. she said it is a marathon, not a sprint. i hope everyone can talk to a coach. i will be saving my money to call her back in a month. taking care of your children is utmost.
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