Michael... remain calm and confident during these conversations. Remember that this interaction may be one of the last conversations you have together in the house. Let her leave with the memory that you were considerate, confident and able to live your life without her.

This is a critical time in your sitch, keep your cool. She'll be haunted by the memory of a loving husband letting his wife go to pursue her "dreams".

If you act angry (which she wants you to do), it will be so much easier for her to validate her decision to leave. Do not let her suck you into a fight.

Im here for you brother.


Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07