Cry honey then tell him what an azzhole he is and that he can NEVER do this again. Speak the words that your body was telling him and listen to what his body told you - I love you, never stopped.
Jeez Karen, are you a mind reader or what?
I pretty much had that conversation with him this morning...the one I was trying to convey with my thwarted attempted at sex last night...called him every name in the book...A to Z...twice! (I'm sure I left some bruises on his chest as well) and then just held him and cried. I've been fairly certain that he'll never do this again..but between last night and this morning, any lingering doubts are being erased. Doesn't necessarily make anything easier but instead of stumbling along lost...I at least have some direction of where I would like to be someday. He DOES love me and his actions are saying that loud and clear.
