H has had many a run in with priests. He likes some, dislikes others. He understands the need for hierarchy but hates the way the church uses it to hide things they shouldn't, punish people with legitimate points and such. He would tell you that it works the same in any large organization (government, military) but the thing with the church is that they get to hold salvation over your head too. H is a big believer, reads the bible frequently and needs to go to church because (a) God says so and (b) To be with other believers and (c) For the children to get exposure to the life and principles of the church (he's HUGE on first communion and confirmation).
Lucky,
What would H have to do? Get naked (Oh, that's right he sleeps naked). Ok - he would have to roll over and take me in his arms, kiss me and then proceed with sexual activity. Then if he wanted me to believe that he gave a sh!t about me he would do it again in a day or so. In between a couple of kisses a day, a butt pat or two and he would be there. It is so easy. I'm angry at him but it isn't terminal.
