stay cool. goslow.
like nocode says, if you are not sure what you want, that's ok. totally understandable.

but if unsure, then I'd say, maybe don't immediately start issuing demands. Maybe suggest that you both go slow? see how it goes? No guarantees?

Demands may push her away.


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