Well maybe you are right mrarow. There doesn't seem to be a whole lot of advice here. maybe in newcomers. I did post there a while ago but I was hoping for advice from people a little more into this. Someone with some real insight. I am having a hard time and maybe my sitch doesn't look as bad as everyone elses but I still am seperated. he lives an hour away and that is hard. I want him here with me. My friends tell me to leave him and let it go in a very negative way but I don't want too. I want to figure out how to make this M work properly. I am trying and I am working on myself. I know this won't come easy.


Me:32
H: 34
T: 12 YEARS
M: ALMOST 5
S: 8
D: 4
S: 14 (OTHER R)
SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it)
NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants)
MOVED HOME 12/01/08
I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans