My H doesn't live here so when he comes to the house he rarely goes upstairs to my (our) bedroom. I ordered the books on line and they came in a large envelope. So, I keep them in that on the floor between the bed and night stand.

My kids have seen me reading the book-but they are little yet, D7,D11 and have not said anything. When they come into my room while I am reading, I always put it down.

Sometimes I think that i WANT him to see what I am reading so that he knows that I am still trying. I told him the other day (Christmas when we had our big talk-see above) that I read all of the time. I try to learn as much as possible about what helps couples in crisis. Of course he didn't have any comment.
If he saw it-what problem would it cause?


Me:45
H: 45
M: 14 yrs
T: 16 yrs
D's: 7/11
Bomb: June '07
Moved out: Sept.'07