Sorry, forgot to ask: How do you keep DR and other books hidden? I feel like I am sneaking porn when I read them. I would freak out if my H knew that I was purposely acting as if and all the other stuff. It would completely blow my cover and cause more problems, I think. I have the books in my closet, tucked away--but I am completely paranoid that H or my kids will find them.
Me/X-H: 47/48 T 19 yrs M 16 years D14 D10 ILYBINILWY: 10/07 H moved out 6/08