I agree that it is incredibly hard to have no expectations or not to get excited when your H seems loving and attentive. I have no idea how to do it myself. It's the hopefulness that keeps me going, the positive signs that make me feel like it will be OK.


Me/X-H: 47/48
T 19 yrs
M 16 years
D14
D10
ILYBINILWY: 10/07
H moved out 6/08