Imageer, you are doing it again. Except that my grandmother passed away toward the beginning of the year, my W acted very close to me, holding my hand and hugging me at different times during the day, standing in for family photos, etc. She also complimented me on my weight loss, I was a pallbearer and she was extremely sweet to my uncles. I really thought she was missing "us" at the funeral. In fact, she said some very sweet things that day. I chalked it up to losing someone that was dear to both of us.
Not off topic, really. This is so weird Imageer.
Me:56, W:51 D:26,S:24,S:22 Married:18 Bomb 9/27/06 Separated 11/27/06 Divorced 10/6/08 Leaving it up to God