So I'm moving into a house alone sometimes next couple weeks. Now that I have a house all by myself, the kids will be able to stay with me. Good and bad. It's nice I'll have more time with the kids, but this also means a lot less interaction with the W. Despite the fact that we are going through the D, I still don't feel like we are done. So anyone have words of wisdom on what I should do to keep things alive? We are going to do mon/wed/fri for one week and tues/thurs/weekend the next for custody of kids. Basically it should end up about even for the both of us. I do feel like I'm basically will be raising the kids on my own now with the time I have with them. I never wanted this, I did not have two kids so I can raise them by myself 50% of the time and not see them the other 50%. Just feel like I made some dumb mistakes and I would be punished forever for them....


M: 31
W: 31
M: 7 T: 8
S:4 D:2
Bomb dropped: too many to count or remember, 12/17/07 last one
S on 9/2/07
W sent off D papers 12/31/07. Me trying to live life and hope she returns one day.

My sitch:
http://tinyurl.com/3dqw93