Hi Brit, I was going to post something earlier today when I noticed you were locked. Now my 41 year old brain can't remember what it was. I hope it was the secret to saving our Rs.
My brain is mostly just mush right now too
Originally Posted By: lizzy
It is interesting that your W keeps bringing up the OM even though there is not much of an R between them. My H never mentions his OWs. I made it clear a couple of months ago that I didn't want to hear anything about them. I guess it wouldn't bother me so much if he would be honest about his feelings for them.
My opinion right now is that if W wants to lower herself to the level of OM, that's her deal - I'm sure it will be a rewarding relationship full of lies, distrust and deceit. Seriously - My W is 35, this guy is 21, lives with his mom and never goes anywhere. It's such a bunch of crap.