Hi Brit, I was going to post something earlier today when I noticed you were locked. Now my 41 year old brain can't remember what it was. I hope it was the secret to saving our Rs.
It is interesting that your W keeps bringing up the OM even though there is not much of an R between them. My H never mentions his OWs. I made it clear a couple of months ago that I didn't want to hear anything about them. I guess it wouldn't bother me so much if he would be honest about his feelings for them.
Hope your day went well. This Cleveland weather is pretty depressing tonight.