Hey, CM- don't have much time to drop by the board, but think about and pray for you daily. This time of year can be hard, but the Lord has blessed me by having H call me a couple of times and come by the house once. God does heal hurting marriages. Blessings, Di
Thanks for dropping by, Di
Well, it's nearing "that" time of the year AGAIN & I really thought things would have moved towards some type of reconciliation by now...
I wonder if New Year's Eve would be appropriate for some contact - a text message or something like that
One thing I AM doing with immediate effect is to cut ties with "our" current hairdresser as it's a pipeline directly to my wife - I dunno, in my efforts to get a life, I still get this feeling too much of what I do gets back to my wife & thus quells her curiousity
In that vein, I inadvertently got some "news" about my wife last week - a mutual aquaintance & I were talking about DANCING (duh) and she mentioned that most girls LIKE men who dance, but it was unfortunate that my wife was not one of those girls!!
Now to me that's odd; firstly as this person said she would not act as a go-between (my wife had come to see her about 2 months back and she got the impression my wife was attempting to use her as a "messenger") and 2ndly, my wife absolutely LOVED dancing and we had planned on going to classes TOGETHER (someday).
Ok, so not sure if this was an "accidental slip" from this lady OR if it was on purpose for some reason?
One thing I know, this lady said to me "When are you goiing to get it? I hope you are moving on with your life"
I asked her not to get into that as she knew where I "stood" ----> SHE does NOT get it that I'm standing for my marriage, sigh
Anyways, just a few thoughts from little 'ol me at 03h15 here... feel free to add your comments
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