Kimmie Lee, my H is off with OW, wish it were his daughter. Wanted to offer up something I read a few days ago and hit really hit home for me. Hope it helps you to see through some of this or at least offer some comfort to all the confusion.
A book I am reading on relationships, etc. and marriages of course. noted that we all need to realize in a marriage, our parnter and self are on a seasaw. Everything I do affects my partner one way or another and reverse is same. Even if neither does nothing it affects the other. ie: if one doesn't move the other can't either. It is not so much about who is wrong or who is right, rather what role do We each play in moving the seasaw. Please I am not judgeing you or anyone else on these boards. think about the seasaw for a while, what does your mind start to see? Meeting at a local cafe, might mean talking about R or seeing if there is any hope two of you can be friends again. I would let the R take lead, validate everything they say, count to ten before any answers. lol I need to count to 20 good luck and let
-Love of dogs, every time I loose a dog to the bridge,part of my heart goes too. Ever time a puppy/dog comes into my life,he gives me a part of his heart. If live my life long enough, in time I'll have the heart of a puppy. -unknown (w/character limit)
