Well, H "talked." Said he wanted to get D because he doesn't have money. Hmm, what's wrong with that reasoning.
Wants to get one L. I said I felt it would be best to have separate Ls. H was angry, says I want to see him suffer. Sounds like he hasn't sought additional advice, but he might.
So I don't know how I can make the point that I am not going to be responsible so that he doesn't have to be. But I held the boundary on the L.
Still looked kinda nuts today, and still angry, but not as raging.
I am putting a post on my cycling thread. It seems as if H is bringing up D every month or so and I wonder about that.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D