Well you are right FLTC, making that statement was purely pursuit. Honestly at the time I wasn't thinking that at all. I was more thinking of it as something for us both to look to as a positive that things are and can continue getting better. An optimistic type attitude if you will, trying to point out the good things to celebrate. But you are right it wasn't good because it was pursuit at best, weak and needy at worst. I think she might have even seen it as a tiny bit of the later.
She's definitely in the withdrawal mode after good positive steps between us which I was fully expecting from her. This is where I am so glad I read Michele's books because I understand the dynamics so much better now. Also glad for my friends here because y'all keep me in line.
If we really want to love, we must learn how to forgive. - Mother Theresa
