Glad you got a present, maybe he got the money from OW, LOL. Wouldn't that set her off. H could be feeling guilt or embarrassment over what has happened between the two of you. When his honeymoon phase is over with OW, maybe he will see things differently.
C said at my last session she thinks W is in MLC and that something traumatic in her childhood is about to surface. I told her W's father died when she was 3yo, her mother at 14. C said that is not the event it is something else that was very traumatic. She asked me if W ever that I can remember talk about something that happened in her childhood or teen age years. I don't recall anything.
W's aunt she lived with when her mother died isn't doing well, she didn't come to SIL's. She has had skin cancers in the past, in the past they were all benign, this time it is melanoma. She hasn't been eating or wanting to do anything and she hasn't started radiation yet. Her aunt is in her 80's and uncle is 93.
I'm going to call W to invite to the house for New Years, all the kids are coming over, it would be nice to have her hear also. Going to make turkey, S25 gets one from his work every year, this year it was 23lbs. Don't want it in the freezer so will make it.
Well need to clean up around here.
Mike
M 51 W 49 S26 S25 D24 D19 Married 27 yrs T over 30 S 7/12 D-bomb 9/26
