wonderful. Let him taste what life is without you and the kids.
Sometimes I wonder, not related to your case particularly, we are so strong and can be so independent, and sometimes, to be honest, we can have so much fun with the kids and ourselves, making our own decisions, why do we want H around? When they are around we have to "act as if", have to be sensitive to their "feelings", "give them space", etc. etc. So much easier without them. Sometimes I do have the idea may be I shoudl just forget the whole thing and I will probably have a better life. But then, I do love my husband. BUMMER!!!!
