mike,
failed to answer one of your Q in an earlier post, over B&W cat.
H did not pay vet bill as he doesn't have any money. Since my ill health, money is very short and we have had financial problems. lol lets just add a bit more to the heap of headaches.

So guess what, just picked up the mail, 12-28, there is a gift from H . He always sends to a nonprofit to protect wildlife in my honor, etc. Then of course wildlife organization replies to me as donation is sent in my name and honor or what ever you wish to call this. Remember H doesn't have any money to speak of. this I know as everything comes through my location for business. the gift to nonprofit is not an easy amount for him to come by.
My, Brain is not working to sharp at moment.
H has again sent a gift to me and yet will not even talk about R/M. What is he doing? At one point told him I felt sorry for he and his OW. OW is at the age she had best choose to have kids or never have kids. I ask H, if he is going to stay with her to accept having kids at 55yrs old and not to hurt OW that way, refuse to have kids yet stay with her.
I ask H to please not hurt a woman (OW) this way and he best make up his mind. Maybe they won't have kids but for heaven sake he best be willing to if she wants. Told him not to wait and then cut her loose so late in life she most likely will never find someone to have children with. Funny I've stepped back and see H in a completely different light. He really is lost and scr^wing up his life for good. Of course OW is happy at moment to just have him live with her. This can't go on as there is a business to run. H is in another state. One would think he would deside one way or another.
But then I have had C tell me as long as he is allowed to remain on his "safe little island" he will never leave. ONly when it is to painful on his "safe island" will he move in another direction. Yet his safe island is just isolating him from world.
H is so messed up! H is beyond MLC, there is more at play here. Lot of anger that is for sure.

-Love of dogs, every time I loose a dog to the bridge,part of my heart goes too. Ever time a puppy/dog comes into my life,he gives me a part of his heart. If live my life long enough, in time I'll have the heart of a puppy. -unknown (w/character limit)