I know when you read posts around here people will tell you that an A is not the reason for the break up but the reaction to something going on in the M. You need to figure out what would have put him in the place to start this internet stuff. Do a time line for the last little bit and see where it takes you. As for your daughter you need to find out why she would leave. And maybe a little less information on your M to her. This is between you and H. I know it is hard. i have a S14 that can pick up on everything right now and I just keep telling him this is not about him. We are very close and if I am crying he knows why. I just keep telling him that he can't take it out on my H. (H is his step-dad)

Keep posting. the more you do the more things you will see. Even if it looks like babbling it all helps.

This is just my opinion. Keep smiling and do things for yourself.

{{{{{wordweaver}}}}


Me:32
H: 34
T: 12 YEARS
M: ALMOST 5
S: 8
D: 4
S: 14 (OTHER R)
SEPERATED: 03/09/07 (but wanted to work on it)
NEW SEPERATION: 27/11/07 (doesn't know what he wants)
MOVED HOME 12/01/08
I'm acting as if this blue sky is never going to rain down on me....Sara Evans