ha, like when did your H become so philosophical!! :-)
Maybe he is OC... I'm kind of proud of myself right now. I was a pathetic, clingy loser for so long but now I refuse to be weepy or depressed in front of H. He can cry all he wants.
I am standing up for myself and what I need/want during the D process. I just took a call from H and told him about all the fun we had today, implied we were eating without him, and "had to go" because all my "kids" were acting up...
I may crash and burn tomorrow but I am getting stronger every day!