Just an update on my sitch. H and I have spent a little time together in the past few weeks. Nothing I want to read into or get excited about. He had 2 lab pups given to him, so I have been trying to help him out with them. He also got a full time job with a local electrical contractor (YEAH!!) first steady job in a year! It should last a year or so. (he's a union electrician, so work comes and goes) He invited me over Christmas evening. We hung out and had some drinks. It was fun, until I said something that came out wrong, which in turn lead into an argument (not good, when mixed with alcohol!) However, I did stay, and apologized the next morning, he agreed, and understood what I was trying to say.
The day after Christmas I took the pups to the vet for him, and stayed over to have dinner. That was really nice. I also gave him a couple small Christmas gifts. A t-shirt and sweatshirt I had picked up from harley in Ireland, he loved them. I felt bad for the guy, those were the only Christmas gifts he had received. So I think even though he did not admit it, it felt good, as he thanked me numerous times. We just hung out chatted a bit about the R/M, nothing too major, and I spent the night again. All in all, this was a good day/night. Lots of laughs, good conversation, and good food! I was sad to see it end.
So now the fun begins, what will happen next? Will he call or text sometime soon? Oh the anxiety of the waiting game!! Hope all is well with everybody else out there, and everyone had a blessed holiday!
Cheers to a happy and blessed 2008!
H-32 Me-29 T-10years M-4yr (10/04) Me- WAW 1/07 I filed for D 2/07 D put on hold 5/07 H re-files for D 9/08 WOW! trying MC 10/08
"Work like you don't need the money, dance like nobody is watching, love like you've never been hurt!"