You need a common link with your wife.

Funny stories, concerns and hopes about your boys...

all I am saying.

As for it possibly being there before...

Don't even bring it up with that possibility in mind. When you bring it up make it so that you have no doubt it was one of the boys.

"Guess what (son) has been doing lately?" hold up wrapper.

"Ok, now guess WHERE?"


Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis

Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans

Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK

TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet