I really appreciate the support but I guess thats why we are all here. Who knew a relationship could get so complicated. They don't give instructions for this stuff when you get married.
As of today she is leaving for the weekend and I will stay home with the kids. When she comes back I will go stay at a friends house down the street.Shes worried I am going to financialy strangle her so she wants to get lawyers involved for seperation. I promissed Her I won't do anything of the sort. She allready told the kids. I begged her please take some time to clear your head, think, whatever you need to do. Before you decide anything. Slow down a little. You said you need a seperation because you were unsure so slow down a little. This is what I get for pushing and pushing and pushing for answers. I backed her up into a corner and now shes kicking back. Another seperation... Ughhhh. I feel a little better this time. I have no idea why. I'm just kinda kool with it.. if you can be kool with something like this. Last time was a month and there was also O/M in the picture. This time it's just her.
I know what I have to do.I've done it before Hopefully I can stay the coarse.It's so easy to get complacent and start backsliding..