Well, WAW and I talked. I told her that I wanted to let her know that I was trying to contact my attorney I sending few changes and my 1st condition to signing to her attorney but she has yet to return my three calls. She said something to the effect of it hardly matters. Which tells me that it doesn't really matter what I do. She wants what she wants. I think she knows she is stuck. I do not believe this is some sort of I've already filed fault crap.
Anyhow, I then said I need 5D dressed to do something outside at 9:00am when I pick her up. WAW apparently just completely ignores what we had agreed on. She thought she was getting 5D for another 4 day rotation, which would be like 8 days to my two and got angry about it. I just said it was unfair and finally was able to illustrate it after she started counting the days. Although, she was most aggravated about it, she said she would have 5D ready to do something outside at 9:00am.
So, a few positives, 1) she talked 2) a noted change in her behavior, when she gets really angry and starts talking over me, she was hanging up on me. Now, she does not. This is at least a change. 3) Brief attorney talk. This should validate her choice. Even though I don't want it, I am doing something. 4) From a fairness point of view, she relent on 5D schedule. This could be bad but at least I was able to point out that it was not fair and she changed her tune. 5) From a communication point of view, we worked out 5D schedule. We actually solved a problem.
Negatives 1) Almost lost it when discussing 5D. Mentioning fairness calmed me down. I guess this is really a positive but I did almost get angry. 2) She was most aggravated. Knew conversation wasn't going to be to pleasant when I asked how is your day and she said something like "why".
Undecided 1) Her comment about me sending stuff to her attorney...something to the effect of it does not even matter. This like I said could be really bad or just mean that she will not consider anything except getting it all and having her cake and ice cream to boot. It might just illustrate her confused state. It also might mean the moon is made of cheese...who knows.
Decided 1) Now, I know I can leave her alone for as long as necessary. I do not have a reason now to contact her. 5D schedule set and I do not need to fear lawyer crap over my period of darkness. Thus, I can do for 5D and myself. GAL and PMA. I hope this darkness knocks the anger and fight right out of her. She really just doesn't have a reason to be this way.
Once again, sorry about the length, more of a journal I suppose...Insight of course always welcome...
