FA - thanks for stopping by again. Wow, this sex stuff is tough. I'm going to swing by your thread.
CL -
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On the other hand, how does one become intimate again with someone when there has been great distance in the M?
hmmm...good question. I guess this is what I struggle with. I don't even know how to bring it up (hehe, no pun intended) to talk about it with him. I don't want to have a full fledged conversation about it because I'm really not ready for it to be resolved. I'm not ready to jump into bed with him and have at it. But I am cognisant of the fact that there is something MAJOR missing in my M. I wonder if it will ever return. I wonder if we will ever get to the point of a consistent sex life. Life is too short not to have sex. Hell, I had more of it unmarried than married. That sucks majorly. And maybe I'm putting more weight on it than there needs to be. I AM using it as measure of relationship health. I don't know if that's wise or not. I do KNOW that I want my M to have a healthy amount of sex in it. I'm not sure that I can achieve that with my H. That is really what I worry about.
Me: 34 H: 39 M: 7 yrs H A 12/05-8/07
If what you say surprises me, I must have been assuming something else was true. - M. Wheatley
