My H stopped by unannounced this morning. He's never ever done that. And of course, the house was a mess with bedding on the sofa and toys on the floor and other Christmas clutter. My mom and nephew are here for a visit for a few days, and oh well. But I keep my cool.
Anyway, he came over to give me my new medical card and a co-pay bill from my Dr, things that he usually just leaves in a planter on the porch. H says "Hi Honey".....Hi Honey??!! and comes in to sit down. He says "Hi Mom"......Hi Mom??!! just like normal. The dog is happy to see him, nephew is happy to see him and asks if he brought Andrea with him. Heh...We make small talk, I ask how D17 is doing, tell H how wonderful my Christmas was at my sister's, how I applied for a part-time job, etc.
H looks kinda sheepish and probably feels pretty awkward in front of my mom. I ask him how he wants to handle attending church and he says it's ok if we go as normal and sit together. I give H his nice wool coat that he forgot to take when he left, and then as he's on his way to his car, he says, "So if you want to get together and talk, we could go to the local cafe or the waffle house".
What the hell does this mean? We haven't laid eyes on one another for two months!
