Yeah, 'till i'm blue in the face. I have said it all, finally I told her that I DO want this divorce (but I really dont). I need a strategy for this next counseling meeting, we have been in relative no contact for a couple of weeks and I have 180'd on our few kids exchanges but sitting in counseling while the counselor has said "We will need to get it ALL out on the table" for this next visit is not in line with DB. Confused, need some guidance before I go in.


Me: 37, engineer, former Marine
Her: 33, HS dropout, retail sales
Kids: 3 Daughters 11,9,3
2 Dogs
Seperated since Jun07