Jen... you need to let him chose his destiny. I know how hard it is but the only way to get him to come back is to let him go (does that make sense?).

You're not giving him a chance to miss you. Stop ALL relationship talks, they are only pushing him further away.

Start acting happy, show him you dont need him to survive. Go out with friends when you dont have the kids. Only then will he start to think about you.

I refer to detaching as being simliar to a shot at the doctors office. You know you dont want it, you know its going to sting, but its for the best. You have to venture outside your comfort zone. Show him you are an attractive, confident, deserving woman (because YOU ARE!!).

You can do this, I promise you.


Hurtin: 32
WAW: 30
D: 8
Bomb: 10/05
Sep: 12/05
Back together 8/07
Bomb (OM): 11/07
Filed for D (me): 12/07