Santa brought me computer parts instead of a snowthrower, go figure.
Nothing wrong with geeking it up
I think you are right, addressing her dpression is a bad idea. Esspecially comign from me. You are also right that they don't recognise this in themselves. In my W's case, she realizes that she has a ploblem but likes to say "It will all be better when ....."
Eventually she will be out of excuses or next events when things will be better.
ok, I'm ready for my beer now.
M35 W37 S9 D6 M12 yrs Know 15 yrs Bomb 1/28/07 My Sitch Failure is the opportunity to start again more intelligently - Henry Ford