Keep up the good work. Keep posting. I always read, even if I don't repsond. You are doing great Lan.
I hope this is true for all of you cos sometimes I feel like I'm alone here, need some feedback to guage where I am. My regular correspondent Pudsy is moving into piecing in her life, if not on this board, so I don't hear from her too much.
Anyway, although it wasn't planned to be like this W, D6 & I have spent the whole of the holiday period so far together. But despite her A, despite saying the M is over, despite saying a whole heap on other alien stuff, it feels like W is working on the R without actually saying she is. So I accept this for what it is without reading too much into it.
Actually, saying W is working on the R is a bit strong, its more like she wants to be around me, wants to do things with me, and is comfortable with that. Today we were sat in the car outside a fast food restaurant, I went in to get food and they didn't have what she wanted, so I bought a whole heap of other options for her just in case. She said to me you shouldn't have done that, I have simple tastes, if they haven't got what I want leave it at that. I am a woman who is easily pleased. (If only that was true in our R.)
The good thing for me at the moment is that I am now reporting back on positive interactions with W and not her anger, long may it continue.
Me:50 W: 49 T:20yrs M: 14 yrs D:11 2005 PA 2006: EA (2003 : 2007) 2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate 2008: Feb Piecing 2009 Limbo 2011: Separated (same house) 2013: Divorcing