My H grew up in an "intact" home... with a psycho father who humiliated and beat his mother him and sister. Sure he showed up to basketball games and sat at church next to them, he also had mental issues and took it on the kids, was very abusive, screwed up my H's life and most likely that's why I'm here. I can't imagen how your H treats your children, or how will he in the future, because the way he treats you is inhuman and cruel, a way I wouldn't even treat my worse enemy. During a breakdown my H called his mother and grilled her as to why she put up with so much abuse and didn't she just leave him, how better off everyone would've been.
He is messing with your head, he is putting all the blame on you so he doesn't have to change one iota. You are better off alone at this point, until, if, your H realizes what a manipulative jerk he is being.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.
