Miss IC - I don't think I've posted on this one before, but I read lots of the threads you and IC write. Especially back and forth. You guys are a great couple, problems? yeah, but the love there is obvious.
Ask as many questions as you want. IC gets to deal with it. I had an EA. It was a mistake, i've forgiven myself for it, but it will take lots of time for me to earn the same from H. When my H asks those questions, i just keep reminding myself that had i not done what i did, he wouldn't have any reason to be asking. You just ask as many questions as you need to start feeling comfortable again. It sounds like IC is more than willing to do whatever it takes to help you trust again, so that's good. It won't be easy for either of you and it'll take a lot of time, but I know you both can work through this together.
I hope you both are doing ok after the loss of family. That can be so hard. You are both in my prayers.
If i can't fall in love... I'd like to fall in chocolate! ~ Author Unknown
