NikB's latest update (#23)

[S.T. _I Made It!]

hey glad to hear how well you've handled everything. I'm sure it must be tough to all the sudden be excluded out of H's family. But you know what, the way YOUR handling it, compared to the way his family is, will be proving a HUGE point. Continue to show love to them in the way you have, and they will end up looking like the fools. And although what is going on is pretty messed up, we cannot judge them. we have no idea what is going on in their minds, what H might have said to them in the past, or whatever. maybe something was said that made them feel hurt for some reason, I don't see what, but you just never know.

I remember saying to someone that it is the victim who really chooses the level of hurt that has been caused. you know, something you might think is trivial, might be devastating to someone else.

I wonder if H did gave them the gifts, and if he did, I wonder if they felt guilty about it. I kinda hope so.

well, haven't been able to get on here much.. still out of town visiting fam.

hope you have a great time for the rest of the holidays.

oh, I didn't remember you have a step bro too! Glad you were able to divert your dad a bit.