My H says the same baloney. I can write a three page letter about lack of sex in the M and how it makes me feel and suggest solutions etc... He will then say. "I love you." That is the whole response. My question has always been "Love me like what?". I love my Mom, my best friend, my brother and a lot of other people. I would also cook and clean for them. What is the thing that distinguishes a marital R from other close R's? Well, usually, sex and any children that issue from that. Sharing a home, 401K, last will and testament etc... can be done with others.
