Whew!

I'm glad you did not take that the wrong way. \:\) Sometimes we DO NEED TO SEE things as an outsider see's them.

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However, my H has made some changes since I "set him free" in a positive way, so at the present time I am still glad I did it.
I did it on Christmas and he left in tears. He came the next day, upbeat and full of fun for the most part. Then yesterday he came to stay at the house with the kids while I went to work. They played games, he helped our D11 with school project and as he was leaving he told me where he was going (to his friends house which is close by-I'm friends with wife also). This is something that he hasn't done in a long time.(tell me where he is going)


Ok, so thats a positive. But now you have to stick to what you told him. Right? You let him go. So any contact you have with him should stay in line with your words. It would be much worse for him to return out of guilt rather than want.

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He is everything I want and the tempatation is too great.


No! He is everything you THINK you want. You are easy prey for him. Thats it. It's the temporary high you feel when you've been rejected and you are searching for that "FIX" to ease the pain. Won't work!

You sound so vibrant and full of life! Let's put all this energy into positives!!

Your welcome Gin! Anytime you need a kick in the asss, let me know, it will save me from kicking the X in the assss

Hugs sweetie

Jeanette

Change the Policy.
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