but I did spend more time working on things around the house (part time jobs done at home) than BB liked. She felt I didn’t pay enough attention to her at the time of the day she wanted the attention. I felt I had to get the work done, then play.
He said something about that last night. That he thinks he shows love in a lot of ways such as doing things around the house (yeah, and who does he think cooks and cleans?)I tried to tell him that I don't view that as showing love and affection. Maybe it's just a barrier of he thinks he is showing love, but it's not my version of it.
