Mako you are in a tough spot I feel your pain. Since there are kids I would not give up the D if it in anyway hurts your chances for primary custody. Your W seems very unstable and you really need to be there for your kids right now. I am not telling you to give up hope, but she really needs to step up. Having druggies around your kids is completely unacceptable. Let her know that you don't want a D, but she is leaving you with no choice right now. You can always start over with her if she decides to step up whether you are divorced yet or not.
Me - 34 W - 33 S - 5 D - 4 M - 14 years Bomb 1 Dec 06 Bomb 2 Aug 07 Separated - Aug 07 WAW Renting own place - Dec 07
