I have no shame about wanting sex in our marriage. I don't like the priests in our parish. One is holier than thou in all his homilies and would be likely to say, "It is your cross to bear." The other is a really nice guy but is unlikely to be able to get that message across to H. H has had issues and difficulties with the church that would make him a less than enthusiastic recipient of their advice.
HI Karen, I've certainly experienced myself, that different priests, can have vastly different attitudes on various subjects. And that some are more helpful than others.
Your husband is not going to be "enthusiastic" about what they have to say to him either way. I think it would be highly beneficial to you, for him to hear it anyway Depending on how good a speaker that priest is. Otherwise... nothing wrong with going to a priest outside your immediate parish, if you have a need for it.
Does your husband still attend church, on a semi-regular basis?
And has your husband ever mentioned a preference that HE has, for either priest, or possibly others?
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
Depending on how good a speaker that priest is. Otherwise... nothing wrong with going to a priest outside your immediate parish, if you have a need for it.