I'd like to think that too. I always banked on the thought that after she put every bill in her name, got different car, and drew up these papers then all of her anger would be released. In part that is true. She rarely contacts me and has only brought up lawyer two or three times since 11/28. But with her calling her attorney to find out if I have done something perhaps I need to do something. I just do not see how I can avoid talking to her about it unless I send one page of changes, plus conditions before I will sign, by fax from my attorney to her attorney that she will easily agree to except the conditions before signing. It shows some some action but does not get into matters she will definitely disagree about. It will also keep her attorney busy awhile. Then I could remain dark knowing I have done something.