A lot of the Sex Starved wives have felt that way. The book does a good job of going over the issues but when it is the H who is lacking in libido it just seems to feel different. Michelle has a book coming out that is specifically directed toward wives. I think it comes out on Jan 1. The thing is that nothing feels more abnormal than having an H who isn't interested in sex. Possibilities like affairs, homosexuality, low testosterone, internet porn addiction and the like seem more possible than an H who simply isn't interested. Do you think that any of these issues are possibilities? A lot of us have spent a lot of time looking for some kind of silver bullet only to find that there isn't one.
Karen
PS Good luck with your talk. Mine haven't netted much in the past. The thing that seems to work is short, repeated honesty over a long period of time. Setting boundaries and holding them. Read Passionate Marriage.
