Well, in my state, she cannot file no-fault and she has no case for fault. So, she can either lie and file fault or work with me on no-fault as she said she would do...So, I could very easily call just to find that out. She clearly is calling to see if I am doing anything. If I contact lawyer, then I will have to get retainer fee, etc...back in that boat. I hate this...I want none of this crap...I want to stay dark without a bomb hitting but I just don't see that happening. I think it might be best for me to call and bring it up. Lack of knowing what will happen in the coming days, weeks, months will eat me up. Hard to ignore the destruction of your family.