Sandi2 - have you tried Effexor? because one of the side effects is a loss of appetite/weight
I think that this is backwards. Effexor makes most people gain a lot of weight. I also think it is one of the nastiest AD's for side effects. Google effexor side effects and read up on it. Many people have issues with it.
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