Imageer, make that 2 beers, I didn't realize your last thread locked at all. I kept waiting for it to come back up on my watched threads. Doh.
I can't understand about the kids at Christmas thing. That's so strange.
I was thinking about the things she said the other day and it points to depression too. "I'm misserable", "I go to bed and cry myself to sleep" (she always went to bed earlier then I did) "I have to leave so that I'm not always angry when with the kids", and so on.
I know exactly what you mean about this. My W says (has said for a long time,) much the same thing.
It stinks because they don't even know why they're unhappy, we're just the easiest thing to blame it on. I agree about depression, but I found out the hard way that bringing that up was a big mistake in my sitch. I guess that's understandable though, it'd be like someone telling you you're crazy and out of touch with reality. I'm pretty sure I wouldn't want to hear that.
I'm glad you had a good Christmas with the kids.
Santa brought me computer parts instead of a snowthrower, go figure.
These are my friends now!
But someday baby... You ain't worry my life anymore
Take away, take away what I don't need, save the good part please. Fade away, fade away.