did i mention that my wife has been sleeping with a pillow between us, because she tells me that she needs something to hold during the night, and i am too hot(temperature wise)? i call it the separation pillow, and i tell her that it's a metaphor of creating a wall between us, and she says that i am making something out of nothing. i can't even roll over and hold her because she is also so far away on the other side of the bed! i said that maybe i'd be better off sleeping in the guest room. she said that's ridiculous.