You crack me up the way you are just like a kid in a candy store over this whole internet dating thing btw. Love it. And also if you want to date black guys then date black guys, who cares? Maybe it makes you feel shallow that you are arbitrarily dismissing guys on looks - but that's what guys do all the time. Whether you want a one-night-stand, a lover or an LTR you've still got to be hot for the guy. Anything that happens after that is a bonus.
Yeah, I agree with what you're saying here. Anyways, I discovered that my "only attracted to black guys" thing was rather psychosomatic because I have a date with a tall, ruggedly handsome blond who seems rather assertively perverted this weekend and I'm looking forward to it in a sexual way. On the plus side he has the cute nerdy hobby of mushroom hunting. On the negative side too conservative and well-off. Of course, the good thing, in my experience, about me dating a good-looking conservative white guy is that my cow feels absolutely no sympathy or mercy (lost at golf- boo-hoo-hoo-have-a-cookie-NOT)so my monkey has free rein to tear down his power structure one erection at a time. However, the mushroom hunting thing might slow me down, so sweet and hobbit-like.
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
