No he doesn't want out of the marriage at all and has done everything right since I asked him to leave. The reason why I asked him to leave was because I wanted to find out exactly what he was doing on the Internet. I created an email and sent him and email asking him if he was lonely and wanted his smile back. Didn't take him long before he asked this woman to meet him for sex. "She" didn't initiate anything at all. When I confronted him, he was full of lies, pretending he didn't do it, saying it was someone from his past etc, etc. I was tested for STDs and everything came back negative. He swears he has never cheated on me. I asked him how he would feel if I cheated on him and he said like he was doing something wrong. That's what got me started thinking about my part in it (not that cheating is ok). My daughter tells me that if he comes back, she's going to leave. So I am in a predicament.
I have started reading and that's why I decided to post here.