Hey All,

I'm beginning to pick up on more clues and make connections in my sitch.

W and D6 & I have pretty much spent all of the holiday period together, be it shopping, visiting (her) family and friends or just chilling at home. The rest of the holiday period is already planned out and the 3 of us are doing things together. W has said she has really enjoyed this time together. All of this coming from the woman who 2 months ago, wouldn't talk to me, didn't want to be in the same room as me, and had both feet outside of the M.

I'm picking up from W that her primary love language is Quality Time, WOW, I always thought it was Heartfelt Gifts or Acts of Service. I've just ordered the book and I'm gonna give it a proper read to get a real understanding.

W seems to be moving forward with our R without saying or admitting that's what we are doing. So I just going to go with the flow at her pace and see where it takes us

Oh, one for the things W bought with her xmas money (Bonus from work and some from FIL) was a Sat Nav kit for her new car. This weekend WE are taking a trip out of town to visit some of her relatives. We're both excited about using this new toy to plan out our route.

Things certainly feel better, but I hope it's not just for xmas though.


Me:50
W: 49
T:20yrs
M: 14 yrs
D:11
2005 PA
2006: EA (2003 : 2007)
2007: April ILYBNILWY Aug PA, Sept Separate
2008: Feb Piecing
2009 Limbo
2011: Separated (same house)
2013: Divorcing